Friday, September 19, 2008

Hot for Teacher

They're young, hot teachers...who apparently love having sex with their underage students. I just posted 3 examples below because in a brief Googling there were FAR TOO MANY to post a comprehensive list. How come when I was in school I never heard the slightest whisper about this type of thing? Then again, I also had no concept of what a homosexual was until I was in middle school. Perhaps I had a very sheltered upbringing without knowing it.

Anyway check out "the big list".


Pamela Rogers Turner, former Ms. Monday Nitro for WCW Wrestling


Amy McElhenney, former Miss Texas contestant


Debra Lafave, bikini magazine model



I've been posting a lot recently about politics as it's the hot topic with elections approaching in November. Here's a change of pace. Tonight I watched part of Dateline.

The one particular story I'm going to discuss involved a young couple with 2 children. The wife was a student teacher and the husband was an aspiring music director. Long story short, the wife who was 29 ends up having an affair with one of her 18 year old students. Apparently she makes no secret about it, flaunting her affair in public, even in the presence of her husband. She even has sex with her teenage lover in front of her husband at their house. According to the husband, the wife and her teenage lover threaten to take their two young kids and desert him. One night, there's some sort of confrontation which ends with the young lover shot dead. The husband admits to shooting him, but claims it was an accident.

The result of the trial was that the jury found that the husband did not premeditate the murder and would later be charged with a lesser charge of reckless manslaughter.

So first point - what's up with all these young female teachers sleeping with teenage students? Maybe it's news bias, but does it always seem like this only happens with young, attractive female students and teenage males? Why don't we ever hear about male teachers having affairs with female students?

My second question has to deal with infidelity. We already know that in America over 50% of marriages will eventually end in divorce. I don't know what proportion is due in part to infidelity, but I imagine it's a large percent. I'd like to see statistics on what gender is more likely to be unfaithful. Of course, I doubt accurate data exists on this topic because it's something that people would probably be ashamed (or at least I hope they would be ashamed) to admit.

This ties into a email discussion I had with several friends about human behavior, genetics, and social constructs as it applies to the concept of monogamy. Is there any reason to be monogamous or do we have instincts or even genetic predispositions to be polygamous?

Coming from a biased male viewpoint I tend to think females are more likely to be unfaithful than men. I'm sure women would most likely hold the opposite viewpoint. Here's the basis behind my theory. Women, in general, have a much easier time getting sex than men. I make this next statement with the utmost confidence: Any woman, no matter how attractive or unattractive she is, can get sex at any time provided she isn't picky about the man.

The converse is not true for men. Men have to try much harder to get sex. Any guy can't just walk into a bar and say 'Hey, who wants to get laid?' and have flocks of women come up to him.

So because it's so easy for women to get sex, I think the temptation to be unfaithful is greater. You're much more likely to sneak a few donuts when you work at the bakery.

Any thoughts?

1 comment:

Dan said...

huge media bias on the "hot female teacher thing". It's a male fantasy, so it gets high ratings. pretty sad for our media sake. it happens for male teachers i'm sure at a higher rate. (mr. dilger anyone?)

you may have point on the who cheats more theory.

a survey mentioned in this article says it's about the same. i think most assume it's more guys.
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=47772

another thing to consider is the changing sex drives. according to this article men's peak in the college years, while females peak in the early 30s when they're more likely to be married.
http://www.bostonmedicalgroup.com/articles/sexual-drive.html